Hammers Are For Boys and Needles Are
For Girls
A few years ago my daughter came home upset over her
grade. When I looked at her paper, I got more angry than
she was. At the top of the worksheet were the faces of a
man and a woman. At the bottom were different objects -
nails, a saw, a sewing needle, thread, a hammer, a
screwdriver, a broom. The directions said to draw a line
from the man to the objects that belong to him and a line
from the woman to the objects that go with her. In our
house my husband does the cooking and I do the repair
work, so you can imagine what the lines on my daughter's
paper looked like. There was a huge red F in the middle
of her worksheet. I called the teacher right away. She
was very understanding and assured me the F wouldn't
count. A small victory, I thought, and forgot about
it.
This year my son is in her class. Guess what he
brought home last week. Same worksheet - same F. Nothing
had changed at all. (Failing at
Fairness, pg. 8).